MEL SCHILLING's DATE SQUAD
Terms & Conditions
 1. Who We Are
Date Squad is a global community that provides digital learning, expert guidance, and support for singles looking to improve their dating lives. The programme is led by Mel Schilling, a relationship expert with over 30 years of experience.
We offer:
- An online membership site with structured video modules
- A moderated community and live-stream Q&A sessions
- In-person events within the UK
- Eligibility
You must be at least 18 years old to use our services. By registering with Date Squad, you confirm that you meet this requirement and that all information you provide is truthful and accurate.
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- Membership and Billing
- Subscription Plan: ÂŁ95/month for a minimum of 6 months. After the 6-month period, the membership becomes a rolling monthly contract, if you choose to stay part of the community.
- Post-6-Month Option: You may opt to remain in the community for ÂŁ45/month. If you choose not to continue, you will lose access to the online community area.
- Payment: Payments are processed securely via our platform partner, Kajabi. You must ensure your payment information is up to date.
- Cancellations: Members may cancel after the initial 6-month term by providing written notice at least 7 days before the next billing date.
- Refunds: We do not offer refunds for partial months, unused content, or missed events. In extenuating circumstances, refund requests may be reviewed on a case-by-case basis at our discretion.
- User Conduct
You agree not to:
- Harass, abuse, or harm other members or staff
- Use the platform for commercial, promotional, or illegal activities
- Post or share offensive, defamatory, or inappropriate content
- Impersonate another person or misrepresent your identity
We reserve the right to remove any user who violates our community guidelines without refund.
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- Community and Content Use
- All materials, including videos, PDFs, event content, and challenges, are for personal use only.
- You may not reproduce, distribute, or share any content outside of Date Squad without our explicit written permission.
- Access to community chat groups and live events is reserved for active members only.
- Privacy and Data
We collect and store personal data including:
- Names
- Email addresses
- Payment details
This information is securely managed through Kajabi, and we adhere to all applicable data protection laws, including the General Data Protection Regulation (GDPR) for users within the EU/UK.
For more information, please review our Privacy Policy.
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- Intellectual Property
All content provided by Date Squad, including Mel Schillingâs methods such as Strategic Dating⢠and The Healthy Dating Pyramidâ˘, are the intellectual property of Mel Schilling and Head Over Heels Ltd. You may not use or reproduce any content without permission.
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- Event Participation (In-Person)
- Tickets to live events are subject to separate terms regarding availability, pricing, and cancellation.
- All attendees are expected to behave respectfully. We reserve the right to remove any attendee from an event without refund if behaviour is deemed disruptive or inappropriate.
- Disclaimer
While Mel Schilling is a qualified psychologist and coach, the content provided through Date Squad is for informational and educational purposes only and is not intended as a substitute for professional therapy or medical advice.
Your results may vary. We do not guarantee romantic success.
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- Limitation of Liability
Date Squad will not be liable for any indirect, incidental, or consequential damages resulting from your participation in our community or use of our content, including but not limited to loss of opportunities, relationships, or emotional distress.
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- Modifications to Terms
We reserve the right to update these Terms at any time. Members will be notified of material changes via email or platform notification. Continued use of the service after updates implies acceptance of the revised Terms.
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- Contact Us
If you have any questions about these Terms, please contact us at:
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- No Refund Policy
All payments made to Date Squad are non-refundable, including but not limited to:
- Membership fees
- Event ticket purchases
- Add-on services or upgrades
- Any unused portion of your subscription period
By purchasing a membership or event ticket, you acknowledge and agree that:
- No refunds will be issued for change of mind, scheduling conflicts, or perceived lack of results.
- You are responsible for managing your subscription, including cancellation before any renewal date.
- In the case of extenuating circumstances (e.g., serious illness or emergency), refund requests may be considered on a case-by-case basis, at the sole discretion of the Date Squad team.
We are confident in the quality and value of our content, but outcomes depend on your personal effort, engagement, and readiness to grow.
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Community Guidelines
Welcome to the Date Squad Community!
This space is designed to support, uplift, and empower like-minded singles on their dating journeys. Whether youâre engaging in the online chat groups, joining a live Q&A with Mel, or attending an in-person event â these guidelines ensure that we maintain a respectful, inspiring, and safe environment for everyone.
By participating in the Date Squad community, you agree to follow these guidelines.
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- Be Kind and Respectful
Treat all members with kindness and compassion. Weâre all on different paths â judgment, shaming, or unkind commentary will not be tolerated.
- Listen actively
- Assume positive intent
- Respect differing perspectives
This is a no-negativity zone.
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- Keep It Confidential
Whatâs shared in the community stays in the community.
- Do not screenshot, record, or share conversations or content outside of Date Squad.
- Respect everyoneâs privacy.
- Never share another memberâs story without their explicit permission.
Trust and safety are cornerstones of this community.
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- Stay on Topic
This is a space for growth, learning, and connection around dating and self-development. Please avoid posting content that is:
- Irrelevant to the community purpose
- Promotional or commercial in nature
- Political or religious in a way that excludes others
Weâre here to build confidence, not conflict.
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- No Self-Promotion or Soliciting
This community is not a marketing platform.
- Do not promote your business, services, social media, or products
- Do not DM members to sell, pitch, or recruit
- Do not share affiliate or referral links
Violations may result in removal from the community.
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- Use Appropriate Language and Tone
- No hate speech, discrimination, bullying, or harassment of any kind
- Avoid overly explicit sexual content
- Use inclusive and supportive language
Letâs maintain a safe space for all backgrounds, identities, and experiences.
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- Engage, Donât Lurk
We encourage you to show up and participate. Share your experiences, ask questions, offer support â but always at your own pace and comfort level.
This is your community, and it grows stronger with your voice.
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- Respect the Leaders and Moderators
Mel and the Date Squad team are here to guide and support you.
- Please be respectful of their time and boundaries
- Follow directions from moderators during live sessions and events
- If you have feedback, share it constructively
Weâre here to serve you â but mutual respect makes it possible.
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- Report Issues Promptly
If you see or experience something concerning, let us know.
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- Remember: This Is Not Therapy
While Date Squad is grounded in expert guidance, itâs not a substitute for mental health treatment.
If you are experiencing emotional distress or need therapeutic support, please consult a qualified professional.
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- Violation of Guidelines
Breaking these rules may result in:
- A warning from the community team
- Removal of posts or comments
- Temporary suspension or permanent removal from the platform
These decisions are made at the discretion of the Date Squad team and are final.
In Summary:
⨠Be supportive
⨠Be respectful
⨠Be real
⨠Be kind
Letâs make Date Squad the most empowering, fun, and meaningful space for singles ready to step into their dating spotlight.